Monogram Etiquette 101: Names, Monograms, and Initials

Choosing how to personalize an item doesn’t have to be complicated! Names, monograms, and initials all work, it really just depends on what information you have and how the item will be used. Below is a simple breakdown to help you decide what makes the most sense.

Names

Names are always a great option and can truly be used anytime. They work for any age and any gender, which makes them one of the most timeless and versatile personalization choices.

Names are especially great if:

• You don’t know a middle name
• A middle name hasn’t been chosen yet for a baby
• The person does not have a middle name
• You’re gifting something to a bride and aren’t sure if she’s taking her new last name

Because names don’t rely on initials or formatting, they’re easy, classic, and something that never goes out of style.

Monograms

Monograms can be used for either gender, but they do require knowing the first, middle, and last initials.

There are two common ways monograms are formatted:

• Traditional monogram format: first initial, LAST initial, middle initial, with the last initial larger and placed in the center
• Block format: first, middle, and last initials all the same height

Monograms feel traditional and are a beautiful option when you have all the information needed and want something classic.

Initials

Initials are a great choice when you want something a little more subtle.

Options include:

• A single initial, either first or last
• Two initials, such as first and last initials
• Two initials for someone with a double name, like MK for Mary Kate

Initials work especially well for items with a smaller space for embroidery. We love initials stitched on a sleeve or the collar of a knit.

They can be more understated and are often smaller than a full monogram or name.

Not Sure of the Name or Gender?

If you’re awaiting a baby and don’t yet know the gender or name, a small design like a flower or a simple animal is a great idea. This is also a wonderful option for items you may want to use again for future children or pass along to other kids.

A Final Note

There’s no wrong choice when it comes to monogramming. Names are timeless, monograms are traditional, and initials offer a subtle, flexible option. When in doubt, think about what information you have now and how you want the item to be used in the future.

Simple, classic choices always stand the test of time.